2.17.2009: Valentine's Day Weekend

Hey guys..

Wow.. Interesting weekend to say the least. It all started on Friday. No school + no work = PARTAY! Haha.. Not quite. I went to the club, yes, but a few people bailed on me so I ended up going with 4 guys and no girls. Not exactly fun to me. So I danced a little but for the most part, I ended up spending the night sitting on the couch trying to avoid the 40-year-old creep-o walking around. He sat next to me once and I just left. Ish. What makes someone that old think going to the club is okay? There's absolutely no one else your age there so the only reason for them going is so they can be perverted and hit on girls that are young enough to be their daughter. The club should really have an age maximum.

Saturday.. Valentine's Day. Supposed to be a happy day, right? Not so much for me. I worked that night and was supposed to go hang out at one of my girls' house afterwards. I got a message on my facebook in the middle of my shift from my ex fiance. When we broke up, he left all his stuff at the house we had together. I gave him plenty of time to come get it. After a couple weeks, he had only taken a box or two out of the house. I was growing tired of looking at his military gear (he's in the Army National Guard) so I brought it to the armory. I boxed up every last piece of government property, not leaving anything behind. Apparently not everything was returned. I already knew he was missing a pair of combat boots that we did not remove from the apartment we were at before that. If anything was missing, it was because he lost it. Not me. He tried to blame it on me anyways. Anyways.. back to that message. He went on and on about how not all his gear was returned and that his unit was taking "legal action" against me for it. That's a little difficult to do seeing as he was the one who signed for the equipment, not me. That means he's the one who is responsible for it. I thought it was a little funny. But any time I hear from Tito, it affects me in ways you wouldn't understand because I know there is more to come. And this stuff to come gets nastier as time goes on. And it didn't fail this time. After work, I did end up going to my friends house and hanging out. We just played cards and watched a movie. Nothing super special.

Sunday morning, I headed to work. Afterwards, I went home and got ready to hit the club again. Once I was ready, I headed out to one of my guy friends' house to chill before the club. Once I got to the club, I went on stage and then upstairs. While upstairs, I started dancing with a guy. Some other girl cut in and started dancing with him. I wasn't going to have that so I cut back in. She didn't like that so she pushed me. And me, I'm not going to let some dumb chick step over me like that. So of course I pushed back. The fight went on for a couple seconds. I don't remember how it ended. I know my knees got scraped and bruised up a little bit.

Monday morning, I got a text from a girl friend of mine. She said I needed to log into her facebook and look at my ex-fiance's page. It didn't sound good. So once i got home, I checked it. She was right. It was pretty nasty. He said something like.. [My first and last name] aka Wall-E show me your robot dance before I throw a screw-driver at your metal head. He used my full name and everything. That's harassment and a threat. He got "Wall-E" because I'm hard of hearing. I cried when I read it and I don't cry easily. I talked to the local police station and sheriff's office about what he did. The sheriff gave him a phone call and told him he needs to cut it out or what could happen. So I'm hoping it ends but we'll see, I guess. So far there's nothing but I wouldn't be surprised if he acted out again sometime soon. I went to his Sergeant about it today and he was not happy about it. I brought to his attention that if his soldier has charges pending against him, he cannot leave for war and that I thought that may be part of his motive. I'm not quite sure what his motive is. My ma said she wouldn't be surprised if he acted out sometime shortly before he was supposed to leave for battle and she was right. She called it.

I'll keep posting on here and you'll be one of the first to know if something happens.

Until next time, peace. :)